Have you been in a situation where you choose something, later you discover that your mind is confused, indecision comes to play, you cannot make up your mind to choose? Maybe, before you begun choosing, there are lot of options to pick and these choices seems too good. or maybe you have no option but for the limited choice that present itself to you, you quickly grab it, without thinking thoroughly. Later you realize that your hasty decision was not the best decision you made. The problem is many of us have got that beautiful picture and expectations in our mind and how that choice is suppose to bring joy and happiness to us. You have this beautiful dream about this choice, somehow, you know what you want but the options coming to your path are really not what you desire. If you'd notice am not being specific about these choices, I am just generalizing about choice here. But am getting somewhere and that place is in relationships. I've heard many women say "I