Difficulties In choosing a Life Partner

Have you been in a situation where you choose something, later you discover that your mind is confused, indecision comes to play, you cannot make up your mind to choose? Maybe, before you begun choosing, there are lot of options to pick and these choices seems too good. or maybe you have no option but for the limited choice that present itself to you, you quickly grab it, without thinking thoroughly. Later you realize that your hasty decision was not the best decision you made. The problem is many of us have got that beautiful picture and expectations in our mind and how that choice is suppose to bring joy and happiness to us. You have this beautiful dream about this choice, somehow, you know what you want but the options coming to your path are really not what you desire. If you'd notice am not being specific about these choices, I am just generalizing about choice here. But am getting somewhere and that place is in relationships.

I've heard many women say "I desire a good man who will love me and care for me, who will adore and respect me. others will say I need a man who will give most of his time for me, many will say I want a rich man who will spoil me, whenever I say honey I want to go to Dubai, he will take me there, I want a man who can handle me on bed, whose manhood is big enough to satisfy me", the born again sisters will say I want a God fearing man, they are the best husbands one can pray for, some ladies will prefer younger men while others go for older men".

I've met someone who said she want a husband who is hot headed, the troubling type of guy, who is crazy enough to do crazy things, like anytime they have a misunderstanding, they should take it up with a fight after that they will end it with good sex, thereby making children in the process. Is this not incredible? When she told me this, I couldn't help but laughed so much that I began feeling pains all over my stomach region.

The men will also say "I want a lady who is respectful, caring and beautiful, who is homely. I want a lady with good character, a woman with class, intelligent, smart, I desire a tall woman with straight legs and poise, who will complement me when we attend social meetings, some men will prefer a working class lady, while others will want their woman to be their housewife. The dream is to have it all but in reality you cannot have it all. Don't ask me why? That is how the Maker of the universe design it to be so. Don't you think if we can have it all, we may get to a point where life will be meaningless. No boundaries to break, no limits to surpass, no need to explore and do amazing things. No need for God. Everybody is satisfied so what is there to pursue again?

Back to choices made in a relationship, we cannot control what kind of personality we want. It is only through luck one can gets his desires even more than what he or she wants. That is why prayers are important when it comes to choosing a partner. You have to pray for luck to shine on you as you look out for that life partner you desire. But if your luck happens in a way that its against your wishes, well what will you do about it? Because of this will you decide not to marry? Will you decide to continue to wait for that perfect or dream person? Well you can wait, that shouldn't be taken away from you, it's your right at the same time do not forget that time is not at your side. You may wait but it may be too late for you later. Choose wisely, make your decision timely and make yourself happy.