Why Do Men Patronise Ladies Of The Night

This is a question mostly for men who for some reasons prefer to seek for the services of this babes who hawk their trade at night. As a young man growing up I used to think that it is only the unmarried and young guys who flex with these babes at night as I walk down the street of some of these joint, I could see some of these girls and guys negotiating on a table occupied with drinks and the air filled with smoke and haze from the heavy smoking of cigarette and other substances. Wow! today, this babes now also service the married and older men and I ask myself this question "why do men patronize ladies of the night"? What is special about their trade? why would men, responsible men, rich men, married and unmarried patronize this commercial sex worker? Below are some reasons gotten after a survey conducted.

1. Unstable home filled with agony between the husband and wife as a result of the many family challenges. This is one of the major reasons that drive the married men to settle at this spots where they think they can have peace enjoy themselves and satisfy themselves before going home to meet their wife whom might make life unbearable for them.
2. It can also be that a young guy who is not capable of having a girlfriend, due to his incapability to woo a lady, convince a lady and meet her numerous demands tend to settle for this night life lifestyle. This seems to be the only option for them since with money they could easily get the satisfaction from this babes rather than facing the trouble in wooing a lady.
3. For the much younger guys who are still in school, curiosity and peer influence is another reason for guys at this age to patronize this commercial sex workers. Many of them watch pornography a-lot which influence their thoughts and minds, as a result it stimulate their curiosity to try the things seen on these pornographic movies. where do they try this? Your guess is as good as mine.
4. For the married, due to lack of love and inadequate sexual activity between the couple, the men tend to explore more through the sex workers. Women mostly are the remote cause of this situation due to their mentality on sexual needs of the man. Yes the man may be demanding from the lady and where the lady is not meeting with his demands, he opt to the sex workers for their need and believe me he will receive his satisfaction maximally.
5. Too much money also create the need from the rich and wealthy men to patronize the high level sex givers who specialize in servicing the men with huge money who can meet their service fee. Most of these men are the politicians, CEOs of parastals, MDs of companies, Police Chiefs, Army Chiefs and so on. These ladies are being managed by organized pimps who run it as a business and have special packages for these wealthy men who need special treats from these sex workers.
6. The final reason but not the least are men who are sex maniac. These kind of men can't do without sex. The love for sex is so much that they could spend their last bit of resource just to have sex with any kind of woman. They never cared for beauty, endowment, shape, color, class, love and marriage. Beware of these kind of men because they can sleep with your wife if you give them little chance.

Men where do you belong here? Despite the numerous sexual disease attached to this trade, it hasn't fazed the stakeholders to avoid this kind of patronage, instead the trade have recorded huge patronage from men. Well at least their are safety measures needed to be taken to avoid any occupational disaster from both parties, such as using condoms, checking your health status, feeding well, seek for proper medical attention from authorized personnel, and staying healthy. But the proper step is avoid sex until marriage and then love your spouse for every reason.  

The writer intention is not to condemn anyone nor condemn the trade of anyone.

 
This writeup is an opinion gathered solely by the writer Mr Occopioview.